I spend time between time.It’s odd. How I’m present, yet project forward.I’ve lived most of my life elsewhere, but feel more grounded here.If you know me, you know I am not well known. Difficult to know. Next to impossible. Really.Puppies makes sense to me. Except the current puppy. Who makes the most amazing sense.I once […]

Today I was reading Independent, a local publication in Chapel Hill NC, just browsing through it, while I ate my breakfast in the 501 Diner. I came across the Letters To The Editor section…and for some reason, one particular letter snagged my attention. I read it, and was very affected emotionally by it. Let me […]

I do not understand why some people continue to confuse what one chooses over what one obviously cannot choose.I was reading a blog post today, and it dealt with, among other things, veganism, and drinking. A comment was made, with regard to “lifestyle choices,” which I thought was not properly applied. Let’s get some things […]

I am the worst sort of person to be in customer service. I’ve learned this more clearly over the years, but I knew it from the time I was 16, and began my first job with a drive-in A&W, in a smallish town, where I found I was very unsuited for waiting on people who […]

Hank’s education began during the first week that I met him. I didn’t know this then. My first week spent in North Carolina was mainly spent getting to know the woman I’d come there in the first place for. But she had shared some stories of him over the phone, and I’d come to know […]

It’s my partner’s birthday this Saturday. I won’t be there to help her celebrate it. We’re in a long distance relationship, and this is how it’s going to work out sometimes. She wasn’t present for mine. But she made the effort to pay attention to things I’d said, things I had mentioned I liked, and […]

When training dogs, it’s always important to remember that you, as the trainer, are not the most important part of that dog’s world. The most important part of that dog’s world is his number one person.  In my opinion, I think some trainers possess an attitude of, if that “misbehaving” dog were their dog, that […]

Hank’s training goes on without me currently. But I laid some very important groundwork.She now refers to him as my dog. As in, “Your dog was very playful this morning.” Or, “Your dog jumped on the bed tonight, but I politely asked him to get off, and he did.” I softly remind her that he […]

Have you ever played a game of marbles? Small things, I believe, create big things. It’s all about opportunity.For the past 8 weeks, I have basically written nothing. I’m in the middle of a novel, and I have written next to nothing. Oh, I’ve penned the odd thought or two, and I’ve typed in a […]

It’s been a month now.  I have officially been in North Carolina for one month. I came here to strengthen my new relationship. I came here to write. I came here to help out as much as I could.  One of the things I came here to help out with was this here puppeh (that’s […]